Fear
November 6, 2008
Humans are probably the only species of animals who can feel afraid just by imagining things.
Have you ever seen an attractive woman that you wanted to meet, but were simply unable to go up and talk to here?
What stopped you?
Almost always, it’s FEAR.
Fear that it’ll upset her, or fear that she has a boyfriend or a husband, or fear that she will insult you in public, or fear that you won’t know what to say to her and she’ll think you’re an idiot.
Naturally such fear makes you totally ineffective.
So what’s the solution?
There are many ways to eliminate fear.
One way is to repeatedly do the VERY thing that is causing the fear. Once you do it and find that nothing bad happens, eventually you will train yourself not to be afraid of it.
If approaching and talking to women terrifies you, do that very thing. Go out and approach 50 women next week and and you’ll find most of them talk to you nicely.
Here are a few more methods to eliminate the fear of approaching and talking to women :
1. Understand the fundamentals of the male-female interactions BETTER than most women do.
2. Learn how to approach women the same way as guys who are good with this do
3. Imagine the worst possible scenario, and be ready for it
